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You must learn to listen to what people tell you - and if their words and or actions are telling you they want to keep it casual -- believe. If the sex in question is with a friend or someone else who is likely going to be a continued presence in your life, modify this question to say: If this person tells me they are no longer willing or available to have sex with me, will I be OK with that?
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She has any new sex partner take the tests before sex. And they still use condoms. Talk about being able to articulate your boundaries!
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